Hi
A little about me, I'm single, shy, never married and no kids. I grew up in a small midwest town and have spent the past 15 years working for the same company. You could say work has been my priority, I'm independent, caring, and hard working. My values lean more on the traditional side, although the thought of *** has never interested me much. I have some background in family farming (crops not livestock) I work as a DSP direct support professional, in a residential group home setting. I assist people with with disabilities (mental and/or physical) with daily life skills and activities, cooking, cleaning, personal cares and outings. Etc. It is a very demanding career field, but also rewarding.
Work has taught me how to be flexible, patience, perseverance, diversity, joy, and how to enjoy the simple blessings in life.
I'm 5'10 tall, curvy, thick thighs and booty, average B cup. Dark blue eyes brown hair. Caucasian.
I enjoy some gardening, cooking, reading, being home, outdoors, walking, swimming, sleeping in, being artisticly creative.
Relationships, I have had few relationships and become a little too comfortable being alone, however I appreciate the peace of solitude. I have not experienced a real life BDSM relationship, but have learned a lot through videos, reading and chatting online the past 6 years. The thought of a BDSM relationship is very exciting, sexy, and sacred. I acknowledge that with most things, the more work and effort you put into something, the more you get out of it.
What I'm looking for, preferably a long term relationship with an experienced mature, passionate dominant man who knows what he wants in a relationship and in life. Someone who has goals, and patience.
I crave and melt for a companionship with guidance, support, structure, sensual touch, a masculine presence.
What turns me on, tall, strong, dominance, emotional intelligence, tone of voice, a man who knows how to sculpt the mind of his horny little submissive..ultimately leading me to developing a loyal servitude. The idea of spanking, blindfolds, light bondage, light Sadist/Masochist, flogging. The Dom/sub relationship dynamic. Some romance.
What turns me off, men with multiple ex wives and or kids. Sissy/submissive men. Trans men, non binary. (Although I am open minded and respect all people)
Voyeurism tends to turns me off as I value discretion and intimacy. Infidelity, *** and ***. Nude photos with minimal context do not turn me on, I prefer mental stimulation over visual.
I believe submission is developed and earned, so people who message me without mutual respect for boundaries (ordering me to suck their cock etc) is a big turn off.